We all have somewhere heard from the children’s mouth when they see the pictures of their parents’ wedding and as per the expectation form the niche minds, urging to see themselves in the photos and wish to have their appearance on their parent’s wedding.

I know some wishes cannot be made possible, but what if we even try to accommodate them again in our lives. All this depends on the willingness and compatibility with the dreams he sees in day or night. And see I am one of those who wished to have my appearance at my parent’s wedding.

Now I am planning to celebrate their re-wedding arrangements with my siblings, cousins and friends. However, their help in the arrangements can be dreary and even worse than I think but could not manage everything independently without their help.

Their help was made deliberate with the sharing ideas they came up with themselves and retaining the best compliances to meet the best arrangements for my parents’ re-wedding managements. Having made all long sequential discussion for over a week, we finally came to the common conclusions.

The conclusions we made about the places and rituals followed during the wedding. But the main challenge was preparing for a surprising wedding party for everyone, so some constraints were not diminishing till the last steps of our arrangements.

 In this blog, I am defining the moods and signatory collapses of the collaborations with my friends and siblings, and what situations came forward us to redefine the strategies as per our plans, and how at the end we made purchases of all props and materials required in the wedding.

These things were driven with financial help through direct lending in the form of loans.

Celebrations at peak

I was given suggestions made by my friends and siblings, and later we all were set to put the suggestions on real grounds. We distributed our works and started working on it. Now it was the time to execute the works to prepare gifts and managements for all the guests.

The main task was to select the special gift and arrangements for the wedding couple, which was yet to be suggested and with the findings on the internet; we must endorse the stages of the wedding rituals.

The planning for food was another difficult task as we were hardly familiar with our family members’ culinary choices, which was helped with the wedding planners’ interference to select the right dishes at the wedding.

Finally, we were all ready to see the expressions on my parents’ faces and the guests.

Gifts and Eatery arrangements

I was given suggestions made by my friends and siblings and later we all were set to put the suggestions on real grounds. We distributed our works and started working on it. Now it was the time to execute the works in relation of preparing gifts and managements for all the guests.

The main task was to select the special gift and arrangements for the wedding couple which was yet to be suggested and with the findings on internet; we must endorse the stages of the wedding rituals.

The planning for food was another difficult task as we were hardly familiar about the culinary choices of our family members and this was helped with the interference of the wedding planners to select the right dishes at wedding.

At last we were all ready to see the expressions on the faces of my parents and the invited guests.

Financial substitutes

All the arrangements were handled with our savings, donations made by our family members every month and our salaries helped a lot. Nevertheless, many things could not be possible without external help with monetary values.

This monetary help we attained from direct lenders as they are the money lenders in Ireland. Moreover, this financial help helped accompany the wedding rituals with the reforms of conducting and managing my parent’s wedding.

The Happiest moment for everyone

We invited all the family members blessed with the joint family’s elders and invited our aunties and uncles to the surprising wedding ceremony. Along with our parents, they too had no idea what they were about to see next on the same day.

The collaborations and mutual understanding among the younger generation brought the fruitful day for my parents’ happiness, and later my mother and father became emotional. They praise the hard work of all their children.

The entire guest was amazed by the arrangements we made in collaboration with direct lenders’ financial help. They have never seen the re-wedding celebrations on a silver jubilee on their lives, and at all this, they felt proud of us, and the celebration ended with the relief we gained.